Monday, May 19, 2025

Using Your Talents

 


One of the most grounding and satisfying things we can do in life is to use our talents.  We are not meant to sit on them!  Frank Sinatra said in an interview that he vocalized two hours a day, whether he was performing or not.  It showed.  That gave him the confidence to always be able to perform.


Our specific abilities lie latent within us and need to be developed.  If they are not, they stay dormant, like a piece of unsculpted clay.  Through training, practice, and study, we will improve and reach our potential. 


Even as we age, certain talents can still be developed.  Although I can no longer take ballet classes, I find rehearsing my music, playing table tennis, and knitting clothes to be very rewarding.  My father played bridge every day, until he was eight-eight, and he loved it.  He taught the beginners, mostly women,  and confided in me that they never improved, which annoyed him.  I thought it was funny.  I think they were there for social reason, and possibly in hopes of meeting a rich man.

What are your gifts?  How do you express them?

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11 comments:

  1. I'm still trying to figure out what my talents might be.
    But I won't be torturing anyone with my singing any time soon :)

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    1. You are so funny, Jules! Seems to me you are a talented photographer, mother, baker, etc…

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  2. Oh, Jules, I almost forgot, and writer!

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  3. Another thought provoking post, Stephenie. I like to put my talents to practical use - knit sweaters and socks, make quilts and blankets for my bed, and, unlike Jules, I'm happy to torture people with my singing! LOL.

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    1. Singing is so healing, Bless. Even humming creates a vibrational shift in the body.

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  4. I have to admit I have very few talents! No one wants to hear me sing and I am not at all graceful. But, after years of knitting I think I am now very confident in my abilities.

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    1. I think you have numerous talents, Anita! You are a professional pilot, you grow your own food, knit afghans and sweaters, cook, bake, keep a tidy and beautiful home, and you are a great listener and friend.

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  5. I agree. And yes, writing too for you :) I do believe that we all have a gift. I remember when I left my yoga studio, asking a business woman what I should do as a job. She said that we should always do what we are good at. So I continued yoga teaching, mentoring, taking seminars, doing healing. I'm glad that I listened to her.

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    1. That’s so true, Ratnamurti. Thank you. Teaching is a much needed talent in this world.

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  6. I like to encourage people. I don't have an artistic talent, but I like to give people a positive and uplifting place to come and even for a moment escape the negativity of life. This is why I started my blog. Wonderful post, thank you so much for sharing ❤️ 😊

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    1. Thanks, Linda. It sounds like you have a clear vision for your gifts.

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